Sindiran Pedas Umar Bin Khattab Kepada Yang Sudah Layak Menikah Tetapi Belum Menikah

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Sindiran Pedas Umar Bin Khattab Kepada Yang Sudah Layak Menikah Tetapi Belum Menikah

Umar bin Khattab radhiallahu ‘anhu berkata kepada seseorang yang belum menikah padahal ia sudah layak menikah (tidak ada lagi penghalang menikah baginya dan tidak ada target yang lebih penting dari menikah untuk sementara),

ما يمنعك من النكاح إلا عجز أو فجور

“Tidak ada yang menghalangimu menikah kecuali kelemahan (lemah syahwat) atau kemaksiatan (ahli maksiat)”[1]

Tentunya kita sudah pernah membaca motivasi agar segera menyempurnakan setengah agama dari Al-Quran dan Sunnah. kali ini, kita akan membawakan motivasi atau sindiran penyemangat dari ulama yang mempraktekkan Al-Quran dan Sunnah dan menjadi tauladan.

Imam Ahmad rahimahullah berkata,

ليست العزبة من أمر الإسلام في شيء وقال من دعاك إلى غير التزويج فقد دعاك إلى غير الإسلام

 “Hidup membujang bukanlah termasuk ajaran Islam.” ,Beliau juga berkata, “Barangsiapa yang mengajak untuk tidak menikah, maka dia telah menyeru kepada selain Islam.”[2]

Ibnu Mas’ud radhiallahu ‘anhu berkata,

لو لم يبقَ من أجلي إلا عشرة أيام، ولي طولٌ على النكاح لتزوجت كراهية أن ألقى الله عزباً

“Seandainya aku tahu bahwa ajalku tinggal sepuluh hari lagi, dan aku mempunyai kemampuan menikah, maka aku akan menikah. Karena aku tidak suka bertemu dengan Allah dalam keadaan membujang.” [3]

Thawus (seorang tabi’in) rahimahullah berkata,

لا يتم نسك الشاب حتى يتزوج

 “Tidaklah sempurna ibadah seorang pemuda sampai ia menikah.”[4]

Abdullah bin ‘Abbas berkata kepada Sa’id bin Jubair yang belum menikah setelah ditanya, ia berkata,

تزوج يا سعيد فإن خير رجال هذه الأمة أكثرهم نساءً.

“Menikahlah wahai Sa’id, karena sesungguhnya sebaik-baik ummat ini adalah yang banyak isterinya.’”[5]

Ucapan Umar dijadikan hujjah sesuai keadaan

وقال إبراهيم بن ميسرة قال لي طاوس لتنكحن أو لأقولن لك ما قال عمر لأبي الزوائد ما يمنعك من النكاح إلا عجز أو فجور

Ibrahim bin Maisarah berkata, “Thawus berkata kepadaku, ‘Engkau benar-benar menikah atau aku mengatakan kepadamu seperti apa yang dikatakan ‘Umarkepada Abu Zawaid, “Tidak ada yang menghalangimu untuk menikah kecuali kelemahan atau kemaksiatan (ahli maksiat).’”[6]

 

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[1] Al-Muhalla Ibnu Hazm 9/4, Darul Fikr, Beirut, syamilah

[2] Al-Mugni Ibnu Qudamah 7/344, Darul Fikr, Beirut, cet I, 1402 H, syamilah

[3] Mushannaf ‘Abdurrazzaq (VI/170, no. 10382) dan Mushannaf Ibnu Abi Syaibah

[4] Mushannaf Ibnu Abi Syaibah (VI/7, no. 16143) dan Siyar A’lamin Nubala’ (V/47).

[5] HR. Al-Bukhari (no. 5069) dan al-Hakim (II/160).

[6]  HR. ‘Abdurrazzaq (VI/170, no. 10384), Mushannaf Ibnu Abi Syaibah (VI/6, no. 16142), Siyar A’lamin Nubala (V/48).

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